By this I mean for no reason, I swear I get blamed for shit (by family) that I didn't even do. It's like I'm their verbal bag (like a punching bag) I hate ppl who bitch for no reason at all. Having a reason to do so is one thing, but out of nowhere it's like damn, can't even have a civil conversation or what not. what the fuck...loving ruining my good vibe...hell
It is very common (usually in Asian families). That's why I moved out, two cities away. Every now and then she calls me and yells at me but in the end I know she misses me. :) I don't have a dad so she is my number one and she can yell at me all she wants!
If you can't take it, leave and rollerblade? Eat sushi? That's what I did when I was still living with my mom and she went bat shit crazy. I highly recommend bubble tea + walk. Good luck!
people still point the finger? i thought that was some kiddie shit...lol.
i know right that is, but it's like i don't know why they are this way. damn old skool folks. it's like they always need to win at ANYTHING and cannot accept defeat.
Vibrant_honey wrote:
You can't really ignore it when you live with these kind of people and if you walk away, asian parents tend to act crazy and cuss the helll out and somehow you walk right back and hear them complain about how hard they gotta work back in the days and how we have it "easy." I'd say live with it or go to the gym and take your fustration and anger out on a punching bag. Maybe you can post their picture on it?
yeah, i am trying to cope, just you know, when this shit happens your whole life it is like so much you can take of the bullshit. great idea though, picture them to the punching bag and BAM!!!
yangsta95 wrote:
wow man! holy f*in shit! well just try to avoid em a lil!
can't avoid since live w/ them, i try, i mean goes one ear throughout the other, but then it's like they test me, they know i'll get pissed. i get heated pretty easily.